Category Archives: Thought provoking

“Mad” About Melanin

Yesterday I posted about this beautful woman (Click the link to see her picture) and how she was told she should bleach her skin…

Do you realize that MELANIN is SOLD for around $400 per GRAM? Learn more shocking information by reading my full article.

Sudanese Model: Nyakim Gatwech…she was recently told she should bleach her blackness away.

For anyone who doesn’t know about melanin…it’s produced by a group of cells in the body called melanocytes. The darker your complexion…the more you have. Maybe you’ve heard the phrase, “The darker the berry, the sweeter the juice”, well…it’s 100% true and in more ways than you can believe.

Have you ever wondered about some of the reasons black women frequently go missing? Especially in African countries? Just because you may have heard it’s NOT true…doesn’t mean it isn’t.

I’m just asking…it’s not far fetched. Remember Henrietta Lacks? What about the Tuskegee Experiment? Look these things up if you’re unfamiliar. Black skin, cells, and blood have been used for centuries in what’s called, “scientific research.” I’ll spare you the details and simply advise you to LEARN ABOUT BLACK HISTORY…all of it.

Back to blackness…

Melanin is a  patented substance. Back in 2015, a company named “River Road Research” obtained a patent for their method to produce it through a process of leachate fermentation for therapeutic purposes. Back in 1920 research by William John Young completely details this procedure. (See the links below on the extraction process)

Even though melanin is known to be extremely difficult to isolate, it’s also known to produce physical and electrical properties. These properties are especially beneficial to the cosmetic and pharmaceutical industries.

Do not believe for a minute that dark skin is undesirable…quite the opposite, and the amount of brainwashing about skin color is disgusting.

Check out Martina Big pictured here. She’s been working with doctors to inject the substance derived from melanin called, ((Melanotan II)) into her bloodstream to “turn herself” into a black woman. She’s not the first person to do this.

Martina Big…turning herself into a black woman through medical procedures.

Black skin is so beautiful that people are killing for it. Dark skin supplies some of the best protection against all sorts of things.
Thinking needs to be rewired. The lies and conditioning involved in the reason behind why self hate even exists have been completely manufactured.

Wake up and smell the coffee…black, no cream, no sugar.

What are your thoughts?

Check out these links and do your own research about melanin.

The American Journal of Medicine

Chemical and Engineering News

Melanin Extraction Process

Opening up the box that’s been delivered.

“Having to REPEATEDLY discuss the same things to someone has more to do with THEIR lack of “receiving” the information, rather than YOUR lack of “communicating” it.”


What are your thoughts on this? Leave me a comment and I will reply.


For the Men: The Gift of A Woman

Hey there…a few weeks ago I talked about the importance of women keeping themselves up…I’m far from perfect, but I’ll be the first to tell you I practice what I preach the best way I can. If you missed it, scroll through the articles here on my site and take a look. Anyhow, in the weeks that have followed that publushing, I’ve continued to get several emails about it, some have been serious and some funny as all get out.

Today though…I’m directing this  to MEN on behalf of women…and whoah, #Warning…it’s “long” simply because some relationships are falling “short.” So, whether you’re already involved…thinking about it, or even getting out of one…read and take careful notes…it just might change your life ?✍?

By the way…if you agree, you’re more than likely doing all the right things…but if ANY of this offends you…there’s probably a good reason and ya might want to think about why.

Ok, Let’s start here…

✔️Just because you have her doesn’t necessarily mean you’re going to keep her. She may be physically there with you but mentally she’s checked out…not good.

✔️Remember that anything you place value on in your life needs to be taken care of properly or it begins to lose its “luster”…begins to break down when at one point it ran smoothly. If you’re not putting maintenance into it, what do you honestly expect to happen❓

✔️And…((So what)) if the bills are paid. Do you really think that’s ALL she needs from you to be happy? Well…somebody told you a lie. ANYBODY can provide for her…hell, in most cases SHE can probably provide for herself. What are you doing different? Are you an asset or a liability?

This is hella long isn’t it? Let’s go deeper though…

✔️Put your gooooood glasses on. That’s right…go ahead, get them on right now??If you’re the right man for her, not only will she be getting a provider, but a protector and someone who also professes to her spiritual needs. That’s what we women call a “Whole” man…he takes care of ALL of her…her mind, body, and spirit??If you’re half stepping here, it’s going to show up majorly….you should be running the distance on this one??

?Another thing…if she’s taking care of herself, she’s expecting you to take care of yourself too…nobody wants a lazy ass slacker. Some men even have women who actually encourage them to take better care of themselves and they STILL don’t…but I’m not just talking about health here…it also involves LEARNING new things and expanding your mind. If you’re not growing with her, you’re growing away from her PERIOD. Don’t believe me? ??Ask a man who has a happy woman and I’ll bet he’ll confirm what I’m saying is true.

??When you first got with her she was “baby this” and “baby that”…the compliments about how beautiful she was constantly flowed from your mouth. Where are those compliments now? ??

?IF you’re a SMART MAN they’re STILL coming…and you’re making her feel like the most beautiful woman everywhere you take her…BUT think about it…if you’ve become complacent…YOU may not be showering her with sweet words and admiring glances, BUT best believe OTHER MEN are because they see the same woman you once did?Why you mad though? They aren’t blind, so why are you❓
#CourtHer #StopActingBrandNew

⚖️Women need a balance of masculinity, tenderness AND maturity. Top of the damn list is being CONSISTENT in the positive things you do for her. That speaks volumes. You would be amazed what you can get from a woman when you consistently display love and respect for her. If she doesn’t feel that from you…you’re probably not getting much from her??‍♀️
#Consistency is the?

?Women don’t want to have to remind you of what needs to be done for them or about things you “see” but “ignore” especially in what’s supposed to be your castle. A man whose worth his salt doesn’t do that…too much of that and a woman will start seeing you more like her child rather than the man in her life. ? REAL TALK…Women aren’t attracted to their children in that respect…so if you act like one, you probably won’t be having any fun.

?Let me add something right here for the Ladies…a MAN who puts YOU first will give you what you “need” before you even get a chance to tell him what you “want.” Did you catch that??A helpless and clueless man is super unattractive?

?Treat her like the prize she is or step back and let another wiling participant claim her. I’m so serious, stop wasting her time and yours if you know you can’t exceptionally fill the position. I repeat, she’s the PRIZE…treat her as such.

??Interestingly…the biggest difference between the men who actually get this compared to the ones who don’t, has a lot to do with who raised them and what they were OR were not taught as a child growing up in their house. So men…honestly ask yourself…WHO taught you…literally?

??This has been written out of love, experience and concern. What I stated was clear and leaves no room for misinterpretation. Commenting is a choice, you can agree or not…I still love you?

Thank you for visiting me here.

Now go make it a great day!!

She Is The Queen…Not You.


There is More That Meets The Eye

Women are designed to be the ultimate epitome of beauty, grace, and femininity.

Why then do some men in relationships feel threatened by that, thus feeling the need to compete?

If you’re in a relationship and you find yourself upset and jealous because your spouse is receiving more attention than you are personally or professionally, I believe it may be time for YOU to evaluate the reasons why.

Women and men alike are naturally going to gravitate toward the beauty found in a female. If you are a man that is driven solely by your ego, then the attention your woman receives in your presence is going to bother you every single time.

So What Gives?

It’s not that these type of men don’t see what others see in their woman…no, it’s not this at all. The flaw comes in when they don’t want her getting the attention that they themselves fail to give her. I’ll repeat that…the attention that they fail to give her.

Again…these types of men are also ego centered, finding their worth and identity based on what others think of them.
They can’t handle someone as close to them as their own partner getting the same type of attention they themselves desire.

Let’s be fair though.

There are females who compete with the males in their life too.

It happens, but not nearly as often as some men do.


Work on yourself from the inside out. Stop giving the world so much power that you need them to approve of who you are. People…especially the woman in your life will respect you more if you keep it in perspective that she’s the Queen…not you.

If you desire to be her King, know your role and be confident in yourself without being paranoid  and immature when the limelight is shining on her…another sure sign of jealousy.

Stay encouraged.

Gifts and Glory

When you make time to simply breathe…I mean breathing with intention by listening to the air coming in then going out of your lungs…you will then appreciate what a gift you’ve been given.

When you’re able to wake up and set your eyes out into the distance and see the sun shining it’s light on your face…you will then appreciate what a gift you’ve been given.

When you’re able to find peace in the midst of your personal storm, no matter how big or small it may be…you will then appreciate what a gift you’ve been given.


Don’t ever take these gifts for granted.